When people just bash step mothers. I understand if the step mother was horrible and treated your child like crap but.. Most step mothers love the step child like they're own and can't even show it half the time like they want to because the birth mom will hop down their throat saying "you're not the mother so don't act like it!" I'm not trying to!! He hugs me and kisses me on his own! I never once asked for it because if he's not comfortable around me I'm not gonna try to force a relationship but he's 2!! I'm not going to tell a toddler that he can't love on me because his mom doesn't think it's right! That'll hurt him! If I can't show him love that is just going to cause problems for the future and I never want him to think I don't like him because he's not biologically mine. I just wish she would accept the fact he has a step mom now!! She had no problem moving my fiances son into a house with her best friends ex boyfriend who used to be my fiances friend which is now her husband with out even telling him but the moment she sees Dillon moved on and found a new life and wants his son apart of it she thinks their is now a line of respect between them that needs to be addressed. I'm sorry but FUCK THAT!! I can't say anything though... It's "not my place"
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ah luckily we have everything done through the courts, they have joint custody. their mother doesn't want them so we have them 90% of the time and she lies about EVERYTHING!
We haven't seen his son in almost 2 months because he's not stable. He has a job, he pays his bills, we are paying a wedding on our own, and we're getting our own house by janurary. I think he's plenty stable. Nothing is court ordered but we have limited funds and can't go to court yet. It's to the point were I miss him with everything in me but I'll stay home next time Dillon gets to see him @steph11
I'm I'm the same boat I hate it! I have hit the point where I hate being a step mom! their mom will promise them to do something like make cookies and they'll come to our house sad they didn't make cookies so is have to make cookies with them! it's a love hate relationship
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I the only one who gets super fucking annoyed seeing certain people comment on shit? Like I'm so thankful she blocked me because she drives me up a wall. 😣😣 Why hasn't Shaneen32 been banned like her last account was! Lmfao
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Being the second baby's mother of my boyfriend feels so shitty because I don't get to experience what it would be like if it was his first.. I remember him telling me all the things he use to do for his other baby's mom while she was pregnant and then I look at us and see that he hasn't done shit... It looks like I'm going to have to be the breadwinner for me and my baby girl and I'm fine with that. I just wish he would step up to the plate and act like this pregnancy is special to him as it is ...
Omg hubby something else 😂 tells me if I'm ready I'm like for what and he sends me this pic I'm like I can't see and he's like I made it blurry for that reason 😒 way to tease me 😩
Then I'd push for full custody. We are when we can, she is mentally unfit to raise a child @steph11