When people just bash step mothers. I understand if the step mother was horrible and treated your child like crap but.. Most step mothers love the step child like they're own and can't even show it half the time like they want to because the birth mom will hop down their throat saying "you're not the mother so don't act like it!" I'm not trying to!! He hugs me and kisses me on his own! I never once asked for it because if he's not comfortable around me I'm not gonna try to force a relationship but he's 2!! I'm not going to tell a toddler that he can't love on me because his mom doesn't think it's right! That'll hurt him! If I can't show him love that is just going to cause problems for the future and I never want him to think I don't like him because he's not biologically mine. I just wish she would accept the fact he has a step mom now!! She had no problem moving my fiances son into a house with her best friends ex boyfriend who used to be my fiances friend which is now her husband with out even telling him but the moment she sees Dillon moved on and found a new life and wants his son apart of it she thinks their is now a line of respect between them that needs to be addressed. I'm sorry but FUCK THAT!! I can't say anything though... It's "not my place"