So I named my son Oliver with the clear understanding to EVERYONE that he is not to be called Ollie. Unfortunately my future MIL doesn't understand that and continuously calls him Ollie and it drives me nuts. Does anyone have any advice how to nicely tell her it bothers me and that I'd like her to not call him that? Seriously if she doesn't quit I will probably snap and I don't want to cause and argument.
I will have to try that. I think what bugs me the most is that my fiance doesn't seem to care and when I bring it to his attention he just shrugs it off but he doesn't want my sister calling him baby O.
My mom had the same issue. She named my sister Nicole and told everyone "do NOT call her Nikki". Of course, my grandma (my moms mil) started calling her Nikki. My mom brought her out to lunch, just the two of them, and told her she must stop. She told her that she hates that name, and her name is nicole. She said she told her, "I respect you so much, so please respect me. Please call her by her real name."
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
My mother n law literally told my son not to call me mama and call me by my name and call her mama. Who does that stupid shit? I’m glad he doesn’t understand but it’s still kinda hurtful.
Ssssoooo funny!!
My 5 year old told me today that I can no long call him Tyler, I must refer to him as "Big T"!!! Hahaha!

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Omg I'm still trying to teach that to my FIL my sons name is Joshua. He was named after my brother who we called josh and I would like to keep that separate.