Not pregnancy related but really don't know what to do and as a result am sat here crying feeling…
Not pregnancy related but really don't know what to do and as a result am sat here crying feeling like an idiot!! Me and the OH have had issues with him messaging other girls behind my back before and we had a big big talk about it just before we found out I was pregnant. He's been really good since the talk but this morning I think I caught it again out the corner of my eye when he was texting. Didn't confront/ask him because I didn't want an argument if it wasn't what I thought. But now I'm home alone and I can't stop thinking its history repeating itself. :(
t446·
Oh no bless u can't imagine how u are feeling right now but not too get to upset n focus on u n baby 😘 x
Bethany·
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Are these girls friends?
jenfer·
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@so nterbaby95, no he doesn't have girl friends. They used to be either girls he's not seen since school, girls he used to date or the most recent I knew about was a regular up the club we work at
jenfer·
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@winterbaby95,
Bethany·
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Well its nice to keep in touch with friends you had from school :) I encourage my boyfriend to go out and meet up with them. Even if they are girls :) A relationship doesn't work without trust :) I can talk to all the guy friends I want, since I knew them way before my boyfriend. So he can't suddenly expect me to drop them for him. The relationship I have with them is totally different from the relationship with him :) He knows I talk to some guys. Then there's times I don't tell him who I am talking to. It doesn't mean anything dodgy is going on :) because he has friends he messages :) God knows who they are :) but because I trust him. I don't care :) I know he only sees me as the one for him, I only see myself being with him :) I can't imagine being with anyone else. Or being that intimate with anyone else :) If he expected me to stop talking to certain people...then I wouldn't be with him :) I don't mind my bf having friends that are girls one bit! I encourage it! but that's just me :) @jenfer xx
jenfer·
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@winterbaby95, it's not who he used to message it was the content of the messages. They were never harmless "hi how're you" find of messages, they always used to end up really flirty/dirty messages. We had an incident this time last year where I found out him and a girl from a venue he securities at were sending snapchatts that shouldn't be sent between two people in relationships and a few other things. So maybe I am just over thinking because it was this time last year (shitty past relationships have made me one of these forgive but don't forget kinda people) it got to the point in our relationship that we was pretty much finished but we managed to sort it out. I'm just scared that it's history repeating itself :/ xx
Bethany·
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Hun, it could be something dodgy going on...but if he can do that when you are pregnant with his baby...then that is really shameful. He isn't the right person for you at all. I would suggest not worrying about it....just concentrate on yourself and the baby @jenfer xxx
Danielle·
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If it was me, I would confront him, not in an aggressive way because that will just start an argument only because it will play on your mind and make you ill worrying! You need to be positive and happy for baby 😊 xx
missing370user·
I'd confront him over it too, especially If there inappropriate ones like you've mentioned. If he's done this type of thing before then he should want to do all he can to reassure you and put your mind at peace. Xx