Yes I know a mother struggle and will always defend and have a mother side before a man. They will never understand our struggle but I am glad it helped and thank you because you motivate me to keep going.

@cristina545

thank you its nice to hear someone say that and your right & you make me want to grind harder for my baby because you here and done this and know exactly how I feel

Its okay you won't be the first or last like my parents told me about being a single mother. I have seen single mom do it without their partner and out just fine. In the end they became much better and happier. Then later on someone comes along and makes you way happier. Either way you'll be happy with your baby. Don't always need a partner to make you happy. I know you will be a great mom. keep up the hardwork cause you motivate me as well to do the same for my kids...

omg right and that's why I'm still working and doing what I have to do for my baby . I haven't seen one thing he got her I mean I'm just prepared to be a single mother and do it on my own. he wasted 8years already of my life and not bout to waste anymore of it. and your right I agree with everything you are saying @cristina545

yeah because they don't know how its to be pregnant. if tge roles were change they will have a different perspective but doesn't give them the excuses to treat us that way. if they can't act right someone better and mature will and that will hurt then in the end. thats why I don't depend on my child father cause he never going to change and I won't waste my life until he get his life together. I have my kids to support and give them a better life. I want them to know I can be a mirage ams role model to them. that when they get older they become independent and don't need a man to be happy and successful.

right that's the truth I mean its crazy how they do when you get pregnant I just don't get it @cristina545

your welcomed same here as well. we only have our own kids to raise not the ones who should know better like them

that why they have mother that should of done raise them right then they wouldn't be acting that way.

best advice I heard thank you & your right I just wish we could switch the rolls an let them see how it is and I try not to cry. I just don't want to feel like I'm gonna have to raise him and our daughter @cristina545

You should and if he still acting like that and its been 8 years he has issue and acting like a child then a man. Its not good to cry and I know it hard. I go through it too especially pregnant. wish they knew how we felt and understand but their stubborn. until you put your foot down and punish him. either he will listen it regret it.

your right and its like I'm all drained and just wanna say forget it and keep doing what I have to do for our child @cristina545 we been together for over 8 years and all I been doing is trying but I'm gonna have to let him learn the hard way because I am tired of trying and tried of crying. pose to be a happy moment in our life and its like hell with him its like he don't even care bout anything

This is my second pregnancy and my daughters father and I have been fighting back and forth. nothing has ever been different he still the same and there was a point I couldn't take it and I had to leave. if your boyfriend wants to change he will but if he not even putting in the effort you shouldn't waste your time. yes he is the father but you have to do whats best for your child.

Yes sometimes you may think your not trying but your really putting in the work. If he not seeing that then he is wrong and he will regret it. sometimes they will never grow up and you shouldn't stress yourself out because of him.

@cristina545 I'm glad someone understands how I feel and I'm 8months I been trying my whole pregnancy to get him to do right and understand how I feel but feels like I'm trying for nothing. I just don't know how much more I can take this is both our first child and I want him to be in our daughter life but I can't make him be here or change

I know exactly how you feel. I have same issue with my daughters father and this is my second pregnancy. I'm 5 months and I'm always trying to get him to change and be a better dad but he all excuses.