just had another breakdown.. my obgyn Dr talked to me and hubby and basically were we are at is if my son's kidneys are dysplasia there's nothing that can be done :'( she said there is a high chance he will not be making it.. even though his heartbeat is strong at 150bpm he can't live without functioning kidneys.. I made an appointment for Monday at massgeneral boston for a second opinion. I'm not ready to give up or say goodbye