just had another breakdown.. my obgyn Dr talked to me and hubby and basically were we are at is if my son's kidneys are dysplasia there's nothing that can be done :'( she said there is a high chance he will not be making it.. even though his heartbeat is strong at 150bpm he can't live without functioning kidneys.. I made an appointment for Monday at massgeneral boston for a second opinion. I'm not ready to give up or say goodbye
@vaevae2008, i know it must be hard to hear this but something similar happened to me with my first saying she had water in her lungs & she wouldnt make it & i was foolish to let it get to me & let myself be induced & all that stuff :( i regret it everyday of my life dont give up is what im trying to say! At the end of it all i found out she was fine & was gonna make it :( doctors are not always correct go with yours & your husband's instinct dont let them tell you otherwise
that's the best thing to do!! when I first found out I was pregnant I was in the ER twice for threatened miscarriage and possible tubal pregnancy. as hard as it was, my fiance and I stayed positive and everyday we always said a prayer. never stop fighting! now our little gummy bear is 13 weeks. sometimes, like my case, doctors are wrong!
God has the final say! Not the drs!