I watch porn too so when I found out he does it on the low I asked him why don't we just do it together smh he wants to just get a quick fix and I wish he would let me be in control I never get on top or I don't initiate anything. that makes sex boring. I can be In control too.@babyhoopes1,

@chas,

yeah he has 4 boys so yeah its definitely new to him lchas @ch

Yeah ha guys are always more nervous about having a daughter cause they are men lol his baby girl is in there :p and I've heard that guys are alot more gentle with girls because they expect them to be more fragile then boys so maybe he feels that way about having sex with you while she's in there lol

I get upset he doesn't eat me out all the time because he does it so good. so I'm like you must've done it before you just don't be that good from not doing it. but he doesn't want me to do it to him either. sex is basically grinding on me and stick it in cum and its over. I need foreplay in my life.

I don't get rejected all the time a month ago I did my hair and put on some lingerie and he thought it was sexy he even did the oral thing it was a great night. but the last time he did something like that was a year before lol so I'm like what I only get head once a year haha @onemoretime

yet I think it's because we r having a girl too lol its our first. lol@chas

lol wow. Ya I wouldn't mind if he would watch with me but he does it in his alone time sobdoesnt waste out time together

lol we are having our third and he did that mostly with our first it's harder for them to grasp until they actually see the baby he was a little better with our second and he seemed to not care anymore but we found out we were having a girl yesterday and he won't touch me now lol do you know what you are having yet? :)

I've had the same problem with my husband for years. It has caused a lot of tension in our relationship. It got to the point where I just gave up. We have sex when he wants to and that's it. I gave up on lingerie years ago because it was too hurtful to be rejected. You are not alone. I don't know what the answer is, but I totally get how it affects you. It hurts a woman's self esteem to feel undesired by her man.

exactly I tell him u should feel good that I get turned on by looking at u. some women don't even want their man to touch them lmao @babyhoopes1

lol if my man wanted to watch porn with me I'd be happy because it would definitely help me out as well but I never can get him to @babyhoopes1

sometimes I thought about that too like maybe because I'm 34 weeks he isn't as comfortable with having sex right now and just tries to make me feel bad instead of just being honest lol I understand with the baby kicking and us trying to do something it makes perfect sense @chas

lol right we want our men. we don't want just anyone lol

oh he only did oral for me 2 times smh so I know how u feel @babyanakin

he is like you always want sex. I'm like well would u rather have me ask someone else or isn't it normal for me to want it from my man smh

I feel the same way. before pregnancy I would want it but like once a week was fine. now I'm pregnant 23 weeks and I've wanted it everyday. but he wants it once a month. I found out he was watching porn to spice up the bedroom and ibfelt like he was doing it to please himself but said he can't get off from it and wants the real thing. so I kinda just gave up lol two nights ago he teased me but I fell asleep. ibthought he was just messing around but nope the one time he wanted sex i was already asleep lol.

I know how you feel lol my sex drive has always been higher then any guys and I would get offended to but it's mostly just our hormones and honestly he's probably stressed out about having a baby too it would be so much easier if they would just express themselves but he probably just doesn't want to worry you I'd just give him some time you guys will get through it :)

girl I have that same issue. mine does not even do oral... (sorry if tmi lol) and I do oral.. lol. mine says having sex with me is difficult (long story) but it hurts.

exactly and what gets to me is why does he have to make me feel bad about it

I do because it isn't fair because I give in when he wants so he should do the same for you