PostPartum Depression.
signs?
I honestly get NO help from fiancé, mother-in-law or mother. I have 2 girls. ones a toddler and a newborn. I can't do it all, you know. I go crazy sometimes. like, psycho. I've thought about hurting myself because it's too much to handle at times. when I do ask for help from him, I get: "be a mom. grow up and stop being childish." I'm up with both girls in the middle of the night while he rests & sleeps in (he doesn't work at the moment). I'm just done. I had another meltdown a few minutes ago and am frustrated. the more I ask the less responses I get.
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I let mine set his own schedule. but I would stop asking for help. I mean yes I know it's hard because it's hard with just 1 and you have 2. but the babies see who does what and I can promise you they appreciate it.
I deal with depression and I havnt had thoughts recently about harming myself but before I got pregnant I did . I thought they would magically go away n they didn't I finally broke down n got on meds . I hope the best for you and if you want my number or anything let me know . I'm not doing anything cept cooking my baby in my tummy so I'm free . try to stay positive . go for walks or something with the babies.
@prestonsmommy, I hope so. I didn't have any issues with my first one. smh. yes, my oldest one is and I think getting my second one on her same schedule is hard.
@leepi really am talking to someone because I don't think having these self harm thoughts are good. I would never do anything to the girls but I think about hurting myself. thank you. I just feel like this is such a great little community and I always get the best advice.
It's rough. I have 1 baby and he's a mommy's boy. literally glued to my hip 24/7. I can't get out of bed without him waking up in the middle of the night or even go 2 feet from him because he screams. I quit asking for help all together because I got the same thing. and now they want to get made when my little boy wants nothing to do with them. it does get easier. are your babies on a schedule of any kind?
def go talk to someone. depression is hard. it can be fine one day and the next second breakdown . your doing awesome for your kids but also put your emotions first. they feed off of your energy. I'm always here if you need to vent also .
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleep...
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
Anyone elses husband a perv? Lol. I cant do anything around him 😒I'm bending over putting groceries away...here he come behind me pulling down my pants, I'm taking the laundry out..there he is. I was on my knees getting something from under the bed..get up to my face lookin at🍆 😣😭😂😂😂😂😂😑🙄
I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
@prestonsmommy, that's true. I'll just have to wait and hope for the best.