So my fiancé and I have decided bottle feeding was the best way to go for us. Yes, we know breast is so amazing and colostrum and blah blah blah... But his grandmother is making me feel like I will be mistreating my child or like I'm not being a good mother by bottle feeding. Just sucks because all I've ever wanted was to be a good mother and she's making me feel like dirt for bottle feeding, regular diapers instead of cloth, not pushing up the wedding to before the baby is born and so much more. How can I deal with this and get her to stop with out being or sounding disrespectful or ungrateful (we live with her for now)
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I just try to ignore her but I guess I owe her my first born since she let us stay with her 😒
Not that I have a problem with church but her grandson wasn't raised that way and neither was I so we think we should be the ones to decided if he or she will be baptized at all
as long as baby is fed, changed, clothed and loved your doing perfect ignore her
@peachs75 if I do that she will fabricate it to where she did nothing wrong. Everyone believes she's a saint. She told me a rule to move in was we had to raise our child in a church and it had to be baptize. We just nodded. Hopefully we will be out before then or we will have a throw down
Your the mom and you no what's best. I bottle fed, use reg diapers. None of that makes you a bad mom. As long as your baby healthy that's all that matters!
oh the joy of living with family lol. you need to take a stand and tell her off. sorry but i found this is the only thing that works otherwise they think they can walk all over you.
im so sry honey if she wants whats best she needs to leave u be. stress is also bad for the baby
Well first of all She wont be the one Giving Birth to your child! && Second, you have the choice to either breastfeed, or not. Nobody can judge you or even tell you what you need to do && cant do. Okay maybe you live with her, but She control you, your man, or your life🙌🏼👌
dont say that hon u pwe her nothing. dont let them rule you!!!!!!!