Men seem not to get how hard it is to take care of a new baby ..just cause I don't go to work…

I have been stressing this to my fiancé !! After many go around and me telling him time and time again I have no time to do shit . I barley have time to shower or eat , take care of the house , pump , deal with my 6 year old who I have to get up with in the mornings , doctors appointments , dishes , vacuuming , bottle washing taking out the trash , grocery shopping it doesn't end lol Just recently he watched baby while I had a much needed sleep day and he said he would clean up and pick up for me well when I woke up nothing was done lol baby was needy the whole time , he was like I didn't have time and I just started to laugh at him and he smiled back and said I get it. !!

Omg! yes! It's like your not the one getting up with the baby in the middle of the night or having to stop what your doing every time the baby cries or getting pooped or peed on!

Man I just sat here and cried because of how stressed I am and no one understands! He gets to enjoy the fun parts of baby not the middle of the night feedings or inconsolable crying!

Our job as a mom is 24/7 there's no sitting on my ass all day eating bon bons and watching soaps . My breaks consist of sleeping sometimes it's few hours sometimes 20 minutes. SO definitely gets more sleep but dares to say least I don't get up early and work long hours @mommyofmisters @promise12345 @romansmommy

try talking to him tht helped me with my boyfriend on hus day off i made him get up and do wht ill do for ma babby and tht made him understand ots not easy and knoow wht he does is take her for walks while mommy rest

Amen