Me and my SO have been living apart for 3 months now he lives in his car and i live with my mom and our son . We will be putting a deposit on a trailer next week I'm so excited to be sleeping with my man again especially with the holidays here ! little man will have his own room and a guest room ! Where do you and ur family live ?
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@phasion, yes because i wanna have a house maybe 5 bedroom or something i want lots of kids
@ginag918 yes you'll have me, we'll I stay in Lancaster we just moved from Cedar Hill I'm like 40 mins from the HQ
Yayy I'll have a friend at work when I get there! Lol @kingryansmom
Yes best place ever to work!!!! Where do u live how far are you from the HQ? I've been there 8 years at the HQ in Cali @kingryansmom
@ginag918 I thought so when u said Coppell I just started there in September I love it so far and today we found out we are getting a raise in January
oh yea girl your going to hate this texas heat ! and winter is so cold !
Yea it's fun next to Disney sometimes but the traffic during peak times 😩 but any store u go in you can get some cool Disney stuff lol
My job is in Coppell so I'm looking at surrounding cities : Grand Prairie, Fort Worth, Irving, Lewisville,Dallas is last on the list due to distance
@phasion, yeah i know when we went looking for an apartment they said it would have to be a 2 bedroom lmao sucks but i like my son having his own room . I'm excited about having a guest room for my mom to visit
@ginag918, where in texas ??? that's the dream to be close to Disney
I have my own place in Orange County ,Ca right in the middle of Disneyland and Knotts Berry Farm 2/2 bath my dtr now is sharing her room with my cousin who is the nanny until we all move to TX next year, but my bf lives at his grandmothers n comes over on the weekend. We been rocky and I've always loved on my own ESP being a single mom 13 years before the new baby so I'm not just about to let a guy move in the baby was a total surprise blessing lol but the plan is for ALL of us to relocate to Texas together Daddy too lol
@phasion, oh my goodness , down here in Texas they don't let you get a 1 bedroom if your childs over 6months. 3 people in one room is tight squeeze. We plan to stay here for a year or two and the rent is super cheap so he will be paying while i save money for us to put a down payment on a house hopefully in the next 5 years.
@bashsmommy1115, oh congrats just in time for the holidays in that case you should spend 3 weeks with mom then transition to his apartment. DADDY needs bonding time !!!!!
I haven't yet!! He's due in the next 3 weeks! So I'm getting a lot of QT in with my fiancé! @nathans.mom14
@nathans.mom14, of course!! If I'm okay with taking care of the baby by myself then I'm def moving lol but he's staying at my moms too!
@phasion, i just came back from vacation in flordia it's beautiful there. how much of a downgrad? how many bedrooms and bathrooms
my husband and i live in florida we had to downgrade from our big apartment to save money but i feel it isnt a downgrade because even though we were in a bigger place it wasn't a safe neighborhood now we are in a smaller place at an excellent neighborhood and i feel safer especially with my little man
The place we are getting is 3 bedroom 1.5 bath , it has a big yard and a huge padio which is nice for us to sit out there while my son plays.
@bashsmommy1115, you dont you want to spend the holidays with your man and child? @ilovebeingyourmommy. how many bed and bath ?
I'm in between my moms and me and my fiancé's apartment, which is ours I'm just not moving in til after the holidays to make sure I have help with the baby while he works! Congrats on yalls place tho!! I know I love my baby having his own room so I'm sure you will too!
His pack n play in the living room 😍
Anyone else’s partner have unrealistic goals/standards for their house ? My fiancé expects the house to literally look like no one freaking lives in the damn thing . Yet throws his clothes on the floor in the living room the second he gets home from works . Pees all over the damn seat . Leaves his tools and things literally everywhere . Yet I’m expected to make it look like some castle . So tired of no appreciation and high expectations that will never ever become a reality.
so i want my SO and my mom in the room during labor, but my SO says because i get to have my mom, he should have his in there. ive told him no a million times (no secret his mom and i hatteeee each other) but i feel like hes going to try to have her there anyway and ill get so mad ill probably kick him out of the room too....any advice?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
opinions please ..
Kai has basically outgrown his moses basket so I was looking to get a crib until he's 6months and can go in his own room, some work colleagues have told my partner if he's outgrown the moses basket he might aswell be in his own room and to just get one of those sensors to put under his cot, I feel like he's too little to be in his own room though 🤔
what has everyone else done?
@nathans.mom14 lol you go girl !!!