my ob doc is the most recommended in my area and boy is she a hoot! I couldn't believe what she was telling me to do today with how to deal with my kid screaming... she told me to "put his ass outside" when he throwing a fit and "let him scream" outside for a bit, telling them when you let em back in something like "if you're gonna scream you're gonna do it outside in the cold!!!" and it will change their behavior real quick, I laughed like WtF!? and she said "no really" it worked for her screamer, with a big smile. Awesomely funny !