My boyfriend is so confusing 😞 we've been trying to have a baby for a year now and now he says he wants to wait .. But the other day he said "I want you to surprise me on Christmas" and I asked him about it and he said he wanted me to surprise him with pregnancy test.. But when I asked him again, he said he can't see himself having a baby yet 💆 man he stresses me outtttt 🙇 make up your damn mind.
wth how can you surprise him when he needs to plant the seed.
If he isn't sure you should hold off even if your ready. It'll only cause stress later if he continued to feel that way and you became pregnant. I'm only telling you from experience if you can wait and get yourself ready for a baby it'll be a lot easier on everyone when the time comes.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.

My son just handed me this…. As an adult I made the decision not to get it and told him why I choose not to. Asked him if he knew anything about COVID or the vaccine and he said no all he knows it’s that it’s out there. At the end I asked him if he wants the vaccine I will sign the form if not we ignore it. He said no thank you 😊.
Ladies, I'm so freaking excited and happy right now that I am UGLY crying at work !! My doctor just called me because he got my blood results back, baby is good and I'm having A BOYYYY!!! I cant believe after all I've been through I finally get my boy !!! Thank you Jesus !!! I want to surprise Tim, any ideas of how I can surprise him for when he gets home from work tonight ??? Let's hear it.
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@ktwins188, I guess he wants me to tell him on Christmas , like he doesn't want me to tell him when I take the test I guess? He's confusing && @just9monthsx3 I definitely will hold on and whatever happens happens, it just sucks that he changes his mind alllll the time .. So I'm just gonna hold on for right now and see what happens