Their father completely switched up on me. He's telling everyone I'm mentally unstable and all types of lies so he can get the kids. He was just with me YESTERDAY telling me that he wouldn't let him family take the kids and now he's telling everyone he doesn't give a fuck about me, I'm always chasing after him and all types of stuff.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
Got into a huge fight with the SO Sunday. He tells me out of frustration that he doesn't care when I tell him I'm tired when I "don't have a job" ig taking care of our daughter an two dogs isn't enough of a job. While I do laundry an crap. An tell me he's tired all the time an he works I don't. An he yelled at me for accidentally knocking over her medicine bottle. An I looked at his phone an he told like 3 people we were done an told his cousin he'd get a lawyer an take her away from me. I can't seem to forgive him for telling me he doesn't care that I'm usually tired or stressed. I just idk anymore... 😔
Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him I get a message that he doesn't have a car so I have to get my son, or he tells me i have to run him out there. I'm already having cut hours at work and getting no child support from him since he's been continuously in and out of work.
iloveyou·
Мама сына-младенца
Get a lawyer & file for full custody of your kids before he plays dirty. & whatever you do, don't put anything in writing (text messages, emails, things like that) because he could easily use those against you in court if it ever got that far. I'm so sorry that this is happening to you.
Aaliyah Evans·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@iloveyou, apparently him and his parents have been stacking up "evidence" against me for months. they've been planning this whole situation for a while now. They have text, stuff from social media, a lot of crap really. I can't believe he's really doing this to me. The same guy that swears he's in love with me. smh.. I'm stressed out
Aaliyah Evans·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lp1988727, this whole situation is just messed up. I honestly can't believe he'd do this of all things. He's being spiteful because I broke up with him and his whole family never liked me from the jump. he turned all our friends against me. idk what to do. once all this is situated, I'm moving far away
Aaliyah Evans·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lp1988727, me and him were just fine yesterday. We had agreed that although we're not together, we're friends and will co-parent. I don't get why he's switching up