A few months ago, I left home in DC to move to Orlando so that my boyfriend and I could further our…
A few months ago, I left home in DC to move to Orlando so that my boyfriend and I could further our relationship. I left all my friends, family and job behind for him. And while things are great sometimes, his mother and her not liking me has become a real burden on our relationship. I can not stand her. She is nothing but mean and nasty to me for no reason at all. She's threatened me, shows up to our house unexpected and bad mouths me to her son every other day. I try not to let it have an affect on me but it really does. My boyfriend is always stressed out and feels like he will never have a happy family. And he keeps begging me to go see her and make peace with her. But I have honestly done nothing to her. Why should I have to apologize for her disrespecting me? He always takes her side and makes me out as the bad guy. I just wanna quit my job and go back home to be with my family. I love my boyfriend, but I'm not happy here anymore.
RoyalMommy·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
Wow in sorry to hear that. He needs to put his mother in her place. You are his family now and you should be comfortable.
RoyalMommy·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
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Amanda·
baby you gotta do what's best for you and what's less stressful... I never told anyone to leave their man but what I will say is follow your heart look out for u and your child..I pray everything works out for the best ...
Jessica·
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@mommi1315, @royalmommy thank you
missing110user·
I was in a very similar situation a few years ago. I left my family and my whole life in California and moved to Orlando to be with my boyfriend. His parents were so hateful to me and I hadn't done a thing to them! My boyfriend didn't do much to defend me and often made it worse when things settled down. We got engaged and we're together for 2 1/2 years before I finally left and went home. I'm so sorry you're having this experience. :(
Jessica·
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I want to believe that our love and little family is enough to keep us together regardless of anything else that's going on around us, but I don't know if it is. It's so stressful to go through everyday and I honestly don't know if it will ever get better. I'm young and I'm having a baby. I should be happy. But I just don't feel that way. @rebcamdot
missing110user·
This should definitely be a happy time in both of your lives! Do you have options when it comes to moving away from his family?
jazmin·
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It's your home if she is gonna do that IN YOUR HOUSE than she shouldn't be let in :( maybe she's jealous that your young beautiful and Hobb have a baby with her son and she's not the woman in his life any more so she puts you down to feel better why else would she it so just smile sometimes that you have something so beautiful that others wish they had
jazmin·
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Mine Is the same
Rhonda Otero·
Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
Maybe I'm totally wrong in my thinking but as a woman who just left all her family and friends to move with my husband here in New York I wouldn't want to give up. I think personally I would try to sit and talk with his mom and at least hear from her what her problem is. It may be a misunderstanding or something you were completely oblivious to. In the end you want to be happy and I think if you love him enough to move so far for him you've already sacrificed a lot and if you leave without at least trying everything first then you will regret and wonder what if. If he isn't willing to move to your state, do all that you feel you can possibly do/take before throwing your hands up and moving back. I know it's hard to adjust being somewhere unfamiliar and pregnant. I want to go home every single day to be with my friends and family and have that support system but I love my husband more. Now that he sees I'm unhappy next year we will make a change. I hope that you can be that one big happy family and get her on your side so you can feel comfortable there