I'm excited to be becoming a mom even though I'm young... Is that a bad thing?
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i havent been a single mom ever. but having a partner means having expectations and disappointments and even can become very detrimental if the partner is abusive. so mayb not having him around will motivate u to become independent and make wise decisions for ur baby and u. about going into labor in school..dont focus on it with an emotional sense. just remember the coming of birth of ur baby is a blessing many women dont have the opportunity to have. ur very lucky. age doesnt make the mother. her willingness to provide care love material well being does. u have nine months to read child developement books...apply for parenting classes which u can retake when ur kids enter the harder stages so they adapt the care to ur little baby. u also can start making friends that u can trust to help you out. look for mature women who seem to want a baby in their lives. we all need support. no matter the age. dont be afraid to look for help even like mentally. with a psychologist. there is great support in having someone to share your fears and worries with who is trained to give u techniques for coping and resolving issues. ull b great..just dont hide urself from the world. own ur pregnacy. enjoy it. because its a special time in life. .where not enjoying it could cause a lot of regret later on.
Im 15 to ill be 16 by the time my daughter is 1 month * haven't had her yet * but don't let the fact you're young get you down about being happy or being a mommy honestly that same fear is what made me kind of resent my pregnancy and baby. Because i felt since i was young i had no right to be happy when i wanted to be and thought society would just look at me even more harder and judge mental because i was happy so I didn't allow myself to be. Take my advice be happy you're ready (: I finally have come to terms and said fuck society ! Im happy I'll have my baby girl ☺️🐷💖 and about you being alone because you no longer live with your boyfriend trust me i know the feeling but it's good you guys aren't seeing each other everyday i lived with mine till i was 6 months and after a while it just was bad we would argue constantly over stupid stuff and i would get so depressed because i wasnt with my family but honestly it's way better being apart from him now. Yeah it hurts because i feel alone and get emotional in my feelings and stuff but then I remember im not alone . He's here for me and it's better this way . It will get easier (:
Thank you all, I'm sorry for being in such an upset mood I'm still trying to accept the fact its really happening and that I should be happy, yet I'm on the verge of tears because I'm so happy!
I am 22 and I am scared shit less of my water breaking at work! I am the only female employee with 15 guys! I understand that I feel most women are scared where they may be when their water breaks.
I can promise you are not alone at all you have all these other pregnant people half that are probably in the same situation. you may not know who I am but you can all message me when you need a friend.
you have 9 months to mentally and physically prepare yourself for what's going to come. you can talk to people, read books, lots a different things. at leat half the mommy-to-be aren't ready and are scared for what's to come.
I am the 2nd oldest of 8 kids and have 1 step-daughter but this is my first pregnancy and my first child and I am scared at what's to come.
the best thing you can do is talk to people and not get yourself worked up or too stressed cause it can lead to bad things especially if your still in first trimester.
when you start to get steed or scared think of all things the make you happy or try to turn the scary situation into a good one. I know it sounds hard but the more you try the better and easier it will be.
Honestly you don't need to stress. You have this. Just be patient with yourself and realize that you are capable of doing this
@canc3r.surviv0r.m0mmy, im not all that ready though, im beyond scared of what people will think, what if my water breaks at school, im only 15 and i stress myself out over the slightest things, but now that im not in a relationship and hes not living here anymore i dont feel like im complete, i feel alone in this.
it's the best thing! I knew a at young age all I wanted to do was be a mom and was ready at 18!
it's not bad at all age doesn't matter as long as you are ready and excited!
Not a bad thing at ALL. Accepting this responsibility shows your maturity, and happily preparing for your little baby shows how gracefully you will be able to handle the rest of life's curves and surprises. I'm a little older than you but feel free to inbox if you need a pep talk @teenmommytobe