@modifiedmermom, yeh it'll def take tons of time. I've never been so insecure

Girl yes you gonna be good don't stress hun! You gonna find a new man. It may take time for you to move on but surely it will happen!

@ab, yeah he thinks she's gorgeous because of her body. He's having temporary fun! Cuz that same b**** will gain weight in her pregnancy, if not... She's not a good person! Any woman to break a family is ugly and he won't be treated the way I treated him. I treated him like a baby. I loved him so much and cared for him like no tomorrow and this is the shit I get! He's a sperm donor too! It might take me hella years to get over it too. Well maybe longer since I have his son! Ugh :( adam looks JUST like him!!!! See I wish I had a long time friend like that. I would Atleast feel secure. Im so insecure now abt my looks and now even more abt cheating. I can't trust any guy. If my husband who I gave my entire heart to can do me wrong even after watching my 38 hour labor.. Then any guy can stab me in the back

I definitely know how you feel hon since my whole group of friends with him since I got pregnant we all felled apart I lost all my friends forget him if he looking for a girl with a hot body he won't ever find a sweet beautiful woman like yourself and you just had a baby weight can always come off but ugliness can't and our sons fathers did something right before they got up left us they gave us our beautiful boys I just say my first son father is a sperm donor lol I know it's hard it took me like 2 years till I started to get over it when I got with my husband I realize how a guy truly is suppose to treat a woman and made me totally forget that loser there is still times I go back how painful it was to me how awful I felt and how I will tell my older son about his real father since my husband adopted him but I have to still tell my oldest when he gets older about his real father and when ever I think about it totally breaks my heart to tell him but my husband is his father he been in my first son life since he was a baby my husband and I been friends for a very long

@ab, omgggggg I would def go crazy!!! U and I almost went thru the same. My best friend actually stopped talking to me and married his best friend and they all hang out all the time. Im the one who introduced her to my whole crew. So I lost my bff, husband , everything. I would go coocoo if I was U too. Im just soooooo depressed. I literally fake smile to adam times I wana burst out n cry. I feel so ugly tbh. She's skinny. Im chubby now. Bleh .. Yeh time will heal I guess... He is going for a hot body right, rejecting me after carrying HIS son.. Well I'll find a successful guy! Forget looks. That'll be the ultimate burn

Tbh I went a bit crazy because of all the pain I was in from him and the fact he cheated on me with other girls one being my best friend and room mate so he truly made me a bit coo coo after words no lie it's hard the only thing I can tell you is time heals all wounds and trust me you and your son will get that happy ending stay strong and try ur best to move on from him even though it's so hard

@modifiedmermom, Yeh he's not going to be with her long term. 2 diff psychics told me. They said the same thing abt him word for word and abt me. They both were like he's gna cheat on U. He will leave U for her but he will leave her too and regret losing U and it'll be too late because U guys will be officially divorced and U will have soneone new in Ur life who is actually Ur soulmate ! 😶 and im happy for U! That's what's up!

Exactly! Trust my ex cheated on me and guess who got the upgrade? ME!

That never works out. I can bet a million bucks it is temporary

@modifiedmermom, ugh with that new model looking girl, he won't miss me as long as he's enjoying her 😖😖 but Ur right. Whatever. So over it. I can move on too! Forget looks. I'll get someone successful unlike him! That'll be a real burn

I know that probably makes it worse, but he needs to grow up. Dont let him see you upset or know you care. Make him miss you

@modifiedmermom, my parents threw us such a huge wedding! 😩

You deserve better hun, don't ever settle!

@matthewsmommy, yeah girl.. He has been putting me thru hell since I married him. I remember my whole pregnancy being painful because of him and when I filed divorce, I thought he would change.. We are trying to reconcile and he has a gf???? Oh hell no! This is probably a sign from God!

He don't deserve you or Adam! He's a dick head I'm sorry your going through this it breaks my 💔 to see you like this. I know, I know, But don't let it get to U I know it's tough but do it for Adam! Your beautiful girl you'll find that great man. Now let's cheer up ma!!

@matthewsmommy, thanks girl! We do deserve a better man for our household. This was the last thing I expected from him. He has done so much damage but now another woman? Damn...

@ab, omg are U serious! How did u cope with the pain?? It's the worst feeling ever imagining him with someone else and the fact im rejected! I really hope I have my happy ending. Adam deserves it

💔 keep your head up ma! Your doing such a great job taking care of that cute baby of yours. You don't need that fucking ass hole! God has a plan for you momma💖🙏

He doesn't deserve you both! You guys will find a greater man to walk into y'all life one day! My first son father did this to me choose another girl over my son and I and wanted nothing to do with us and I met my husband now we are having our second child together! You will have a happy ending unlike him! Stay strong mama!