i say plan a simple one. and enjoy. i know it feels bad when u have all the special plans go wrong. but dont stop having a baby shower just cus its not the perfect way. i almost made this choice and im happy i decided to just roll with it and see how it turns out now.

im not doing a registry though. or nething like that its more of a party for me to celbrate baby. if they bring me a gift im happy if they dont its all good , them being there is enough.

when are u due?. im doing mine in december 5 and im just sending invites next week. all my parties i always dont plan too ahead of time...three to six weeks for me is fine. lol. they know ur preggy...they should expect some kind of baby party.

yeah see I initially planned to do it myself but then my mother wanted to do it so I let her and she dropped the ball . I should have just kept on planning myself @reaganmommy2015 @ngujen @yummycake and with it being November it's not enough time to throw something together and have ppl actually come out with such short notice

i did my own baby shower. and for my third im doing some stuff. had a lil pitty party a couple days ago when i almost let hubby decide for me what was gonna happen. doing one for urself is fun. why dont u try it can be a very simple one with pizza and lemonade. as long as u have support from guests coming.

I didn't have one either and she's our first born as well.. His mom was suppose to throw it but cancelled. It sucked, but my mom's friends ended up giving us money when she was born 😭

@mycherrybaby, you can always do one for yourself

but this is my first baby and really wanted to share the whole experience w my family and friends and have that memory smh @reaganmommy2015

I didn't have one either