Rant/advice: 🚨 im SO emotional right now and torn beyond words can describe. 7 months ago, I filed for divorce with my husband whom I love more than anything (I don't know why) ... Last month he said he wants me back home and wants to reconcile. I said to give me time. He insisted a quick answer that same night! Lately I feel like we should give it a shot to reconcile and maybe things will be different this time around but... He's completely mia. He's ignoring me like an immature little boy. I've been texting and calling for a couple weeks now. NOTHING in return. Not even a single word or letter. I need to know where we stand. One day I even told him it was very urgent abt adam and he still avoided me. He should atleast be there for Adam. I don't understand what he's getting out of ignoring me so hard. Im starting to believe the girlfriend rumors now. Like if you're done, just say so! I never once avoided him. I always gave him clear answers. The divorce will be final in the next 3 months and I don't even know his whereabouts. Not to mention, he didn't show up to a video we had to watch in court a couple days ago. :'( how can someone be SO cold hearted. Then again I should expect this.. This is the same guy who thought he's my boyfriend during marriSge and always "broke up" with me.. Biggest breakup being after I gave birth to our baby boy after a 38 hr labor! If that isn't cruel. I don't know what is... 😭
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Mama, he's giving you all the answers to your questions and doubts by his actions. Don't go back to him. You have made it this far without him, trust me you and Adam do not need him. He'll only be a headache and heartache to y'all both. If he hasn't opened his eyes to his family now, then he isn't. But do not for one minute think down about yourself because you and Adam deserve more than he is able to give. So much more!!! Keep your head up and stay strong! It's a tough road but look how far you've gotten already!!! Sending lots of hugs and prayers for you and Adam! ❤️
@juliagail09, thank U so much for all your kind words and Inspiring me. You're so right. You've witnessed a series of his immaturity because I would write rants through out my pregnancy. I seriously thought filing for divorce would wake him the hell up. It was a HUGE risk but a risk worth taking. He's still the same person 7 months later!!!! My jeez. That's just amazing. Like wow. I guess it's true. People DONT change or should I say MEN don't change. Many women even mature a lotttt more after Becoming a mother. Sorry but I don't know about any other guy. I love him so much. I don't know if I'll ever forget him ESP since I have a son with him. He may move on and forget me. I just can't. I truly loved him. I can't trust any other guy now
oh beautiful girl you deserve so much better then him and so does adam. he's just playing mind games with you because you are doing what best for you and your son. you deserve so much more then someone who would up and leave after giving birth to his(your) son. he walked out on his family you have given him many many many chances and he is just screwing you over. dont let him play those games with you. no more. you deserve the world and more and I hope you find the man that gives you and your son the world. im sorry your husband(soon to be ex) isnt the guy. but you are strong. keep it up for you and adam.
@monilovesautumn, im sorry to hear that.. It sure is a tough time. The hardest thing I've faced in my life. I hope it gets better for U. I can understand Ur pain. Just a bunch of questions but at the end of the day,,, it is what it is.
your not desperate trust me I'm going through it too. like things are rocky with us too . but don't ever apologize for his mistakes . you just tell your son when he get older that things didn't work out and if he needs more answers then ask his dad . but none of this is YOUR fault . he will wake up one day and realize that he had a great woman and he screwed up . they always come running back when its too late. guys take longer to mature then we do .
@2novbabies, yeah I don't understand what he's getting out of it. It's so childish to do. Im just so hurt. He's so psycho. Just last month he wanted me.. Now ignoring me. What does anyone get out of ignoring soneone? I've sent so many msgs it's ridic. Atleast say something!
@monilovesautumn, yeah he's very flip floppy with his decisions about me. It's so obvious he has someone and when things go bad with her, he runs to me. Pick a woman dammit! I hate players! Like..Don't have children if U don't know how to keep a family! He's so bipolar I swear. Little boy! Man I'm done trying. I look so damn stupid. Soooooo many texts sent to him. And calls. I look so desperate. I only been Tryna save my family. I owe adam a huge apology when he's a bit older and understands. Sorry for marrying Ur dad! Sorry for keeping him around longer than he deserved!
Him ignoring you is all the proof you need that you should be strong and move on. I'm sorry you're going through this he needs to grow up
exactly . if he really wanted to reconsile he would try to be around more not just for you but for the baby . my guess is the girl he was with put him out for awhile so he thought he could just come back to you because you had his child . I don't know why , do some guys think just because they get you pregnant they own you or something . like nobody have time to be playing duck duck goose @adamsmaaa
@monilovesautumn, yeah something doesn't add up. He doesn't seem sincere. If he truly wanted to reconcile , he wouldn't all of a sudden abandon me. But to even avoid adam??? What a deadbeat.
then don't get back with him . if he's still behaving like a little twat screw him . remember he came to you . you didn't come to him . and , he's only doing that probably because his plan b didn't work out
@littlelady, thanks. It's just so hard. I was so strong about it and he kept coming back. Now that I'm considering his proposal abt reconciling, it bothers me he's ignoring me. You're rught. That's a sign he's really not the one. It's so twisted how a man can pick some random girl out of no where over his wife and son