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Brenda
Brenda
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When I gave birth I tore a tiny bit in my cervix an got 1 or 2 stitches I think an I really want to have sex, I'm not…

When I gave birth I tore a tiny bit in my cervix an got 1 or 2 stitches I think an I really want to have sex, I'm not hurting anymore an I'm not bleeding either, is it safe too or is it to soon?? My daughter is 9 days old

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ivettes_mommy

Brenda

Мама дочки-младенца

Omg that seems forever lol but better safe then sorry @lp1988727

aleisha94

Aleisha

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (33 нед.)

Doctors say wait 4 to 6 weeks that's when your completely healed up

sammie_bell

samantha

Мама двоих (младенец)

Wait it's to soon you don't want to pop a stitch and get a infection

lalaloopsi

blessed

Too soon you should wait a lil longer

missing98user

missing98user

Мама сына-младенца

That's too soon. Everything is still healing and going back to normal. Girl you think that's long, I waited 6 weeks. I couldn't do it.

katwillbrand

Katherin ✨

Мама сына-младенца

Ahhhh!!!! I waited 5 weeks to let my body heal I wasn't hurting either but I was scared and it still hurt at 5 weeks and I didn't tear either! I think it's too soon but I think you should use your best judgement on that one

queendavis

Steph 💋

Мама двоих (младенец)

First off your stitches are in no way healed yet. But secondly you aren't supposed to wait because of the state of your vagina, it's the state of your uterus. There's a giant hole in your uterus from where the placenta detached and that hole needs time to heal. Approximately 4-6 weeks. If you have sex too soon you risk getting a serious uterine infection that could not only be very painful but could cause complications wth future pregnancies, or even infertility. It also doesn't matter how clean you think you and your partner are, it can still get infected. Yes there are women who will say they had sex before 4-6 weeks and they were fine but there's also the women who could tell you how it messed them up and wasn't worth it. You should not be having sex until your OBGYN checks you downstairs and gives you the OK!

liamsmommy831

Charlene

no try and wait a little until fully healed you may hurt yourself. .

chelseachelsea

chelsea

Мама сына-младенца

6 weeks is best Bc your cervix isn't closed until then. Which means infection and pregnancy come easy

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