*rant warning* Is it so wrong to not want anyone who hasn't supported or been there for you throughout your pregnancy to…
*rant warning* Is it so wrong to not want anyone who hasn't supported or been there for you throughout your pregnancy to see your child until he's a few months old? Even if those people are your family/your SO's family? My fiancés family have only acted immature, tried to tell me what to do with MY child, and have made no effort to talk to me. They've bought 2-3 things for the baby and that somehow makes it okay for them to see him. I'm sorry but seeing my child is a privilege. Not a right. Plenty of people in my family are not going to be seeing my child. So why is it a huge problem to not want his family to see him for the first few months? Please, if I'm wrong tell me.. But I do not feel that anyone should have the right to see my child when they've done nothing but cause me stress and haven't even made an effort to talk to me. I've talked to his sister's ONCE since I got pregnant. His dad is a drunk. And when i saw his mom (twice since I've been pregnant) she only talked about herself and how she isn't eating anymore so guys will like her and to tell me I HAVE TO do this or that with my child. I'm losing my fucking mind.
Arizona·
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@vinnysmomma, I'm trying! But papa bear is making it extremely difficult and not understanding :/
Arizona·
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@cvc2010, Yup I completely agree. This entire situation is making me so pissed. I don't get how he can feel they have a right to see our son when they haven't been there at all. Just because they're family doesn't mean they can treat me like shit but still get to see my baby that I've been taking care of and nourishing for the past almost 8 months and then spend hours pushing out.
Hannah Alexandria·
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Nope. You're mama bear. You do what's best for your family.
cvc2010·
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right dets fake n I feel like ain't no need to flex now u ain't been doing nothn so keep it det way once my baby get here cus if they really cared they wud show interest throughout the whole pregnancy ijs
Arizona·
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@cvc2010, Exactly! How are they going to ONLY show interest once the baby is born?? That's bullshit. Where have they been the past 9 months??? They have no right. I'm really glad you understand though. Now to just make my fiancé understand.. 😒
cvc2010·
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u r not wrong I'm goin through the same thing only my bd family haven't contributed or done nothn n I will the same way wit my baby cus I feel like dets fake to try n come around wen u haven't at least called to check on ure grand baby det goes for some family to so I feel ure not wrong cus I will b doin the same thing even wen I have my baby ppl will b turned around at the door cus I feel y break ure neck now wen u ain't did nothn?? so do wat u feel is best for ure child my opinion