*rant warning* Is it so wrong to not want anyone who hasn't supported or been there for you throughout your pregnancy to see your child until he's a few months old? Even if those people are your family/your SO's family? My fiancés family have only acted immature, tried to tell me what to do with MY child, and have made no effort to talk to me. They've bought 2-3 things for the baby and that somehow makes it okay for them to see him. I'm sorry but seeing my child is a privilege. Not a right. Plenty of people in my family are not going to be seeing my child. So why is it a huge problem to not want his family to see him for the first few months? Please, if I'm wrong tell me.. But I do not feel that anyone should have the right to see my child when they've done nothing but cause me stress and haven't even made an effort to talk to me. I've talked to his sister's ONCE since I got pregnant. His dad is a drunk. And when i saw his mom (twice since I've been pregnant) she only talked about herself and how she isn't eating anymore so guys will like her and to tell me I HAVE TO do this or that with my child. I'm losing my fucking mind.