I'm having a small dilemma.. So I was talking to my mom on the phone last night, and she was explaining how it's sort of a right of passage that once the baby is born, she stays over for at least a week to help with things. but I think that on the 1st day home I just want to spend it with my baby and my boyfriend. She also says that I'm gonna want her in the delivery room, when I actually don't. I love her, but I don't know how to tell her that I do NOT want her there.