Before I became pregnant ppl use to ask me,"Do u have kids? " I would say "No" and then they be like…

Before I became pregnant ppl use to ask me,"Do u have kids? " I would say "No" and then they be like "Good. Don't have any." and I use to laugh it off. Now that I'm pregnant and ppl ask what I'm having or how far along I am and I tell them they say "your baby gone be spoiled.." and blah this and blahh that.. I be like WTF!?!!? I heard this lady at work yesterday asking this young guy RIGHT beside me if he had any kids and he replied no then she hit him with the "Good,don't have any" LIKE BITCH IM STANDING RIGHTTT HERE I CAN HEAR YOU.. Why do ppl try and shame u when u r pregnant??? I don't get it