Is it bad that I don't really want family to come the first week with baby? I just feel like i want some time for my husband and I to bond with her. I know everyone is going to give me their input on how I'm suppose to take care of her. Idk am I overthinking it?
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
FTM problems... So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It's making me sad. Like I wish I could quit my job and be home with her.
I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
no more heartbeat. i wanted her so bad.
Madi is taking ounce after ounce I literally can not keep up. I want to give her rice cereal to keep her full😑
Chelsie·
No, I think that's perfectly normal and understandable. I bet more people would do that if they didn't get so much pressure from fam to see the baby right away.
Judy (Judith)·
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me and my baby daddy are doing that only people we want around is our daughters god parents.
deleted-user·
no I told everyone we will tell u when u can come. at least the first few days I want minimal people over
kristen·
I completely understand, that's how I feel too. I don't want people coming over and taking my son out of my hands when I just want to bond with him
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
I'm the same way. I want it to be just us for the first week or so.
Rebecca Irizarry·
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So how do you tell them without them feeling offended?
Kay·
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That's understandable. Say it though. People will still come but atleast you cut the number down.
missing10user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
wish I would of done this!!!!
Arizona·
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I feel the same way.. When I told my fiancé I don't want his family coming up here (they were planning to stay at a hotel close by) and he doesn't seem to understand I want it to be JUST US with our new baby. I talked to my mom about it and she said the best way to try to keep people away is just saying you're tired or the baby is sleeping and what not. When she had my brother, if anyone came over she'd say she was tired and go into her room and that was that. Maybe this can work for you? And I'm sure if you tell everyone you want time to bond with baby, they'll hopefully understand. Good luck mama
faithplus2·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
I said the same thing I want the first month with my baby to myself