I feel so much conviction. So many people around me have gone thru a loss, meanwhile our little bug…
I feel so much conviction. So many people around me have gone thru a loss, meanwhile our little bug is on track and doing well. I guess I don't really feel guilty per se, it's just so much work to NOT talk/write/post too much about our bug because I don't want them to feel like I'm rubbing it in. I find myself withdrawing from a lot of interaction now based on not wanting to be the center of attention or disdain. 😔
Martee 💋💋·
Мама троих детей
I know how you feel when I was pregnant with my daughter a coworker was pregnant as well she was due at the same time as me but at 10 weeks she found out there wasn't a heartbeat which means she had a miscarriage. Every time I had a doctor appointment I never said anything regarding my pregnancy to her out of respect for her but sometimes she would seek me out to find out about my pregnancy. Which I know was so very hard for her. Just last week I went to my old job to visit (I was laid off in May) and she held the baby and she looked so sad but yet she wanted to hold her as well as when she found out I was there she seeked me out
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (22 нед.)
@reaganmommy2015, that's EXACTLY where I am. I'm not really avoiding them, but it hurts my heart to know my presence is like salt in a fresh wound to someone. I knew that feeling when I suffered my miscarriage--it's like you want to be there and share the experience even if only vicariously, but it tears you to shreds to see a baby belly bump or hold an infant knowing you won't get that for your own just yet.
Martee 💋💋·
Мама троих детей
Yes it's hard as well I also had the same thing happen to me when I had a miscarriage but in the end it makes you a little stronger