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Kate
Kate
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My due date is Saturday and my husband picks this morning to tell me that he doesn't want my mom in…

My due date is Saturday and my husband picks this morning to tell me that he doesn't want my mom in the room during the actual delivery. He says that he is my husband and the father and he wants it to be just us. I told my mom from the beginning that I wanted her in the room with us and she is here from 5 hours away... How the hell am I suppose to tell her this now? I tried to explain to my husband that their role are different and that's it's a comfort thing and he got even more offended and feels like I don't think he can do it. I can't deal, ugh!

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pinkblossom99

Chela

why don't you tell him she is the one in charged of taking all the pictures

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blessedtobeamommy

ForeverHisMrs

Sending positive thoughts your way! You can always say the doctor wants to support people in the room AND go with &chela915; and say mom is taking all the photos ... I'm sure he wants to be in the photos 😊

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blessedtobeamommy

ForeverHisMrs

Doctor wants two* support... Lol

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kaygrig

Kay

В ожидании первенца

That's a good suggestion @chela915 At this point someone will be disappointed. Dang this is a hard one. Or let your husband be at the top by your head and mom be behind the dr not actually touching you.

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kmrie

kayla

Мама сына-младенца

He should respect that you want her there an your right there roles are diff when I was in labor my bf was there an that made me feel better but Iy moms who got me through it all like my coach... An you can't tell her no now her heart would be broken an she drove so far I think he needs to think about what's best for you what you want...

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foreveryoung247

Justina

Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего

Tell him it's a little too late and it would be rude as hell to tell her that now !!

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del_1533249319_sunflowerfields

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He's being selfish, my husband and mom are the only ones allowed the room with me

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angelbaby232004

Kaitlyn

В ожидании первенца

He should respect that you want your mom in there he's being super selfish that's not ok I get where he is coming from but still like everyone has said maybe make him realize she has a different role than what he will be doing.

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lillady

nell

Мама четверых детей, беременна

don't take it personal but I feel him cause it should just be you and him in a room and then after you have the baby then everybody else should be able to come in that's just my opinion

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