The doc today basically made me feel like a horrible mother because I didn't get a stent in my heart before pregnancy…

The doc today basically made me feel like a horrible mother because I didn't get a stent in my heart before pregnancy and because of my heart problems it can cause more problems for baby and I. But the way she said it made me feel awful like I'm retarded, like I don't deserve the baby. I told her I didn't really plan on it happing and she just went off how I had to have planned on getting pregnant because people who aren't on birth control are usually trying to get pregnant, the thing is I've tryed 6 birth controls and my body rejected two and the others hurt my spine. I just don't know what to think.