I just had one 10 weeks ago with my second child and I was but honestly it isn't so bad. Just remember to breath and talk to the nurses it helps. The first two days are awful but after you get up out of bed the first time it gets a lot easier.

That must be terrifying... I've had two natural births and this time they say I will need a c section and I'm scared too but I know it has to be worse for you being closer to your due date in all... I would just talk to people you know that's had one... My cousins tell me it's not that bad... It just takes longer to heal and you want to be careful but having to be stitched up down there was no fun either! I would have to spray warm water from a water bottle down there everytime I am peeing because it burned so bad. So just like everything it has pros and cons and I think I would rather my lower stomach hurt than my vagina

If you were referring to my post, I deleted it. Good luck with your c-section.

Sorry you've had so much negativity. I'm sure all goes well.

I've had 2, I promise they aren't as bad as they seem. Especially the surgery part, that's quick.