If only it were that easy my husband has tried talking to her in the nicest way possible and she just doesn't get it i may have to be the one to talk to her see if she gets the point then

You may want to kindly excuse her . My MIL has plans and I told her no my mom is coming and even if so I go it thanks .

My parents live like 6 hrs away from me and when they came over to visit and get to know the baby she wouldn't let my mom enjoy some time with him until i told my husband to talk to his mom about that because it wasnt fair that my mom couldnt be with him and his mom sees him everyday and the fact that she wouldnt let my mom who drove 6 hrs just to see my baby spend time with him just really pissed me off cause she doesnt want anyone else near him she only wants it to be all about her

Exactly! Thats why my husband and I moved out because I wanted my baby to have his own space and I wanted to just leave i was tired of living in that small room in his parents house and his mom being constantly up my ass for everything and now that we are in our own house its like we never moved out cause shes over here all the time hogging my baby its getting on my nerves but i try not to say anything because I know that no matter what she will always be my husbands mom and I wouldn't want to make my hubby feel bad

nope I already told my MIL and mom I will let u know when u can come over. u deserve that time just u guys

No you're not. My MIL is older and we took her in to help but she also doesn't believe in respecting my privacy. It sucks that you try to accommodate people and they take it for granted