jaixi
Jacinda
Lol so I'm really just realizing my mother and grandparents didn't even remember my birthday this year for like a week. Wow a year later I'm irrelevant.
I mean at least my dad texted me happy birthday. Which is funny because I'm sure him and mom went to church together .. Which is right down the street from where I live. ...should they even be relevant to me anymore?
I mean even my close friends didn't tell me happy birthday until the day after but I expect that. I'm the only one in my group good at remembering birthdays.
Idk I think I'm done with my family .
I mean at least my dad texted me happy birthday. Which is funny because I'm sure him and mom went to church together .. Which is right down the street from where I live. ...should they even be relevant to me anymore?
I mean even my close friends didn't tell me happy birthday until the day after but I expect that. I'm the only one in my group good at remembering birthdays.
Idk I think I'm done with my family .
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I turned 40 last month and didn't even get a card from my mom. I don't get overly upset about it anymore because I'm just used to it. It's who she is. It mostly bothers me when I see her making so much more effort with my siblings and even my brother in law. My mom is the type who caters to those who need her. I don't need her to take care of me so therefore I get the short end of the stick. So, my advice would be to try to make peace with who she/they are and surround yourself with people who do care and want to make the effort.
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I turned 40 last month and didn't even get a card from my mom. I don't get overly upset about it anymore because I'm just used to it. It's who she is. It mostly bothers me when I see her making so much more effort with my siblings and even my brother in law. My mom is the type who caters to those who need her. I don't need her to take care of me so therefore I get the short end of the stick. So, my advice would be to try to make peace with who she/they are and surround yourself with people who do care and want to make the effort.
Some people are just selfish even when it comes to the people they love. My mom is the same way, and I tried to have a relationship with her but figured out it was healthier for me to cut ties. Every situation is diff though so only u can make that decision- but definitely try to surround urself with positivity! Good luck hope things get better for ya. ❤️