So lately I've been looking up water births and I seem to want to try it , so I talked to my boyfriend about it , and he fusses at me saying , "Nawh like get off that stuff, just have the baby normal , stop all that extra stuff , why are you making these decisions by yourself, I want to make some decisions too, with this birth ." Like I want to include him but he actting like he's pushing out the baby . That kinda annoyed me .😖 Am I wrong for being annoyed? 😑
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Aw miss yall too! I will be there the 30th and 31st @tiffany_a_g
Okay , and I feel good, just been tired lately and 💕When you coming down again Auntie we miss you . @prettyyellow
Lol it's your body you make the decisions! How you feeling though boo? @tiffany_a_g
Do I need to call him lol? Just say the word! @tiffany_a_g
@mamamills you need to do this birth in whatever way you will be most comfortable! I'd let him know that he can have an opinion, but tell him it's ultimately your choice because you need to feel comfortable and secure. This is one of the biggest milestones in a woman's life.
Thank you , cause I thought I would be the only one to get annoyed of that . 😖@mamamills
Have you watched the business of being born ?
That's the equivalent of calling a Doula "extra" or a birthing ball....what does he want for it to be like the movies? Tell him he gets a say when he starts doing some research cuz water baths can be really beneficial even if only used for the first half of labor....
I would be annoyed too. Doing a water birth isn't "extra stuff" it's actually a lot less hectic than having to haul ass to a hospital.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
It's on Netflix and YouTube try and watch it & see if u can get him to watch it as well but even if he doesn't then you should it's very informative