Was cramping all night since 330 am after sex tho. Then woke up at 730 am headach. Cramping. In…

Was cramping all night since 330 am after sex tho. Then woke up at 730 am headach. Cramping. In upper and lower abdomen. My eyes killing me hands and feet swelled up again can't bent fingers and toes without pain. Dr almost sent me in yesterday. Due to blood pressure. But it went down when she checked. It again. Hospital is an hr away don't wanna go just to be sent home. But if it is preeclamsia. Then it can be dangerous. I got up moved around I feel fine now besides the swelling and really bad head ach. What should I do bd. Won't be home till 12 should I go to hospital. Or wait it out more? Ladies? Anyone els experience. This etc