Everyone keeps telling me not to hold my daughter too much because I'll spoil her but then I feel…

She's yours if she is spoiled you have to live with it & before you know it she won't even want you to hold her so just enjoy the first year & do what YOU feel is best

Don't listen to them!!!! She won't be a baby long and you'll regret not holding her more. Studies have proven that children that are held and interacted with a lot as babies are overall more healthy and smart anyway! It's not spoiling, it's just loving your baby!😊

Babies don't spoil. Please don't allow other people's opinions rob you of the opportunity to bond with your baby. You're the only mommy she has.

I do not believe you can spoil a child by holding them before the age of about two. If an infant is crying and wants to be held I will hold them!

Actually as an infant they need to be held and nutured. It builds trust and good mental wellness in an infant.

*nurtured

@Roy ce_ivy, @mommy122015 @queeneden @morgans_mommie @whitney thank you ladies I feel so much better...I love holding her and you know people always want to give us parents unsolicited advice...I tried the no hold thing for two days and just felt like crap and felt so disconnected from her

She probably felt the same way. She spent all that time in your womb. You're all she knows, all she wants, and all she needs. People really piss me off when they give this type of HORRIBLE advice. Snuggle that baby as long as she needs you to and Congratulations!

@queeneden, thank you mama and I'll be loving all over my little chunk because before I know it she will be a rebellious teenager lol

Smh girl she's only a baby, it's okay to hold her especially this young. They can't tell you different, my dad be telling me that and I be like this my child not yours lol! I always hold my son he's still a young baby lol.