I always some how end up making my hubby feel sick. and it tends to happen when we are arguing. now…
I always some how end up making my hubby feel sick. and it tends to happen when we are arguing. now he doesn't want me cooking for him cause I'll eventually complain about it. like I do when I try to wake him.
I wish our marriage was better. but if he keeps making me feel bad for things. I don't see that happening. 😰
Chava Luque·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (12 нед.)
Talk about it with him when both of you are calm and if it starts to heat up take a break
liz·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
it's hard to talk to him. bc he sees in how I feel as being wrong. and that gets me upset. I tell him we need councling. and he says I'm the one that needs it. not him. @chavalava
Alina·
В ожидании первенца
If it's hard to talk to him in person, maybe you both should try writing it out so you guys can both articulate your feelings better for each other to understand. You guys can do it on your own time away from each other, so you really have time to process each others feelings and reply when you aren't as upset. That's a big thing in relationships, I feel like. Speaking out of turn in the heat of the moment, you can say really hurtful things. Don't speak about it face to face until you've reached an understanding and make sure that you are sincere in what you say, try not to accuse or blame...it'll make him defensive. Maybe if you can convince him to try that by saying maybe you just aren't putting things into the right words, he'll try. Majority of fights and problems in any loving relationship happen because of a misunderstanding. We can't expect each other to completely understand each other, we all process things differently. Sorry that was so long lol but I hope it could help you in some way. Good luck!