I hate when people tell me what to do with my hair especially when they know nothing about my hair…

I hate when people tell me what to do with my hair especially when they know nothing about my hair texture or type or even worked with it even more so I know they talk crap about me to others and are judging me or my hair so annoying I'm very proud to be a black women who did the big chop I'm extremely happy my hair is 100% natural and very proud of my very tight coily hair.I don't need to live up to anybody's standards of what they think is beautiful but my own