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I'm just seeking some advice. This is my first child and my boyfriend's second. I feel like since he's been through this…

I'm just seeking some advice. This is my first child and my boyfriend's second. I feel like since he's been through this all before, he's not as interested as I feel he should be. He says he's excited, but he doesn't really act like it very much. I don't know if I'm just being emotional and over thinking things or if I should actually bring it up to him. I don't want him to think I'm whining.

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tiffanyluis

TiffanyМама двоих (младенец)

before my fiance was with me he had six children I figured he wasnt really excited for either one of our children even though he always said he was and he really truly was he was with me through labor he cut their cords and everything and he was so excited to hold them plus I didn't know that he had never actually seen any of his other kids being born so I was the first ti show him how a baby looks comin out lol and that made me even more excited because we had that experience together

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kchilds

kchildsВ ожидании первенца

I think it's a woman thing. I'm pregnant with my first and this will be my child's fathers third baby now 😁 but don't jump to conclusions, I'm sure he's happy. As soon as your baby arrives he'll be more excited than ever!

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tylersmommy011

Taelor

That's how I feel... it makes me want to cry when he isn't excited back. but I also feel silly. @2novbabies

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tylersmommy011

Taelor

@thegeedie,

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tylersmommy011

Taelor

I hope so too. Thank you so much ♡

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lexx_pj

Lexx Barela (Chierici)Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

I used to feel the same way about my boyfriend. This is his second child and my first. He never used to talk about the baby or seem excited or even seem interested when the baby first kicked and things like that. but as ive gotten further along in my pregnancy he seems more into it. i hope it gets better for you! :)

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missing171user

missing171userМама дочки (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)

That's how we are, every week I'm like babe were getting close babe I'm so excited and he's like I know you always say that and in like oh well sorry for being excited for another baby

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tylersmommy011

Taelor

I think maybe once I have more of a belly he will... I hope. He just doesn't talk about it as much as I do. @2novbabies

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missing171user

missing171userМама дочки (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)

I think that men don't really show/feel as excited as we do about it. With our first he always said he was excited but it wasn't like overly shown like it was with me aha

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