My unborns grandmother want to take me to court for custody of my child because I wont let her be in the delivery room... what do I do??
Unfortunately I don't think there's any worse than my future mil but one good thing I can say about her is that SOMEHOW she raised an amazing guy..put him through hell but somehow did it and he's perfect to us. There's no way the judge is going to take a baby from a mother that's doing all she can to place the child with a grandparent. The only way they would is if they think you're an "unfit" parent. Which they can only prove that if you've done drugs or they have proof that you're engaging in activities that could risk the baby's life. That's really the only way they can say someone is an unfit parent. Just being young isn't a reason.
uh let her. the judge will just laugh so she won't get far wtf. she sounds ignorant. is your body and your baby
@allisongrace, yeah she sounds just like my childs father mom.... I am glad im not the only one.... I felt like I was the only one going threw this crazyness
Omg sounds like my boyfriends mom 😭 except I'm legally an adult and he is still under age.. But neither of us even want her in the baby's life.. She thinks she's gunna be in the delivery room because she's trying to tell me she has to be in there for daddy to be in there-NO! She's going to be very disappointed when she shows up at the hospital. Plus by then we will be married and possibly be working on a restraining order against her (she's a psychopath and has even had 2 of her kids taken from her..and she thinks she's gunna try to take my baby and remove me from his life HELL NO) she recently decided we aren't allowed to see each other anymore just because she likes drama and will only be able to control him the next few months so she's getting scared.. But little does she know when she lets him "come to my house" we're going to get married. Then she can't do anything ever. To any of us.
Any attorney would laugh in her face. She has to prove you an unfit mother and most the time unless she prove you drug addict or alcoholic or neglect there is no way they would have a case
thanks you guys.. its just really irritating and scary at the same time because im 17 and this is my first child and I just cant imagine loseing my child over some so dumb... she isnt even letting her son (the father of my child) talk to me because he dont want her in the room either.
um she doesn't have a say so in that delivery room momma......and unless ur a awful terrible mom one 20 different drugs and living in a dirt hole there is nothing she can do but maybe get visitation......
She may be able to fight for visitation after the fact if that is an issue too but you can deny anyone in that room
@xaidenmom, let her think she can. smh, intimidating to be a part of the birth is not the right way to go and highly unlikely. Lol
BTW, welcome to preggie and congratulations on your pregnancy. Happy postings!!
haha tell her to f off! she cant get custody of your child just because you dont want her in the room!!!!?
LOL! I'd laugh in her face. & if she even comes to the hospital before or after you can tell them you don't want her there and they will tell her to leave. She needs to have respect.