i would say to make sure he is involved in everything that has to do with the new baby on the way. ask for his opinion on things you are going to buy for your baby and try to also buy him something as well every once in a while so he doesnt feel left out. tell him to pick something out and tell him that its going to be a gift from him to his new brother or sister.☺
My two yr old was stand offish in the hospital when he met her he didn't understand I think he was scared cuz I was in the hospital bed and hooked up but when we got home he loves her and helps 😊
I have a 2yr old that stays home with me and I'm nervous she's going to have a hard time sharing my attention so I'm trying my best to keep her involved. She kisses my tummy and we call him by name... I figure get her used to the idea before hand.
I just kept askinh if he was going to be nice. I asked if he was going to share mama milky since he is still nursing. He's been great with his brother that's now 2 months old.