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Sorry this is so long but I need some help. So my friend is having a bit of a hard time trying to figure out what to say…

Sorry this is so long but I need some help. So my friend is having a bit of a hard time trying to figure out what to say to her man. So I thought maybe you ladies can help.

So to start, her and her boyfriend have a 3 month old little boy. Today they were having some kind of get together for her brother in laws birthday. Anyways, I guess she was sitting in the living room and him and a few of his family members and friends were talking about sperm donors. He told on of their family friends "I'll be your sperm donor and I won't even charge you if you let me have 50/50 custody. I could go for another kid. Especially if it's a little girl"

I know he definitely loves her. She took herself and their son in her room and he kept asking what was wrong. She wants advice from me but I'm not sure what to tell her. I don't think he meant it in a bad way but it definitely came out that way. What do I tell her?!

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babycasey

Crystle 💋

lol I would have hopped in the convo like no you won't! lbvs.... that wouldn't fly at all. I won't even let a mofo donate sperm for money... smh

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juliagail09

Henleis Mommy❤💜Мама дочки-младенца

even then if he wants another kid why didnt he ask her if they could try for another one?? sperm donor?? hmmm

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juliagail09

Henleis Mommy❤💜Мама дочки-младенца

if it was an ex then hell nahhh she has every right to be mad and upset.

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missing171user

missing171userМама дочки (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)

Oh it's an ex oh hell nah that would piss me off big time but I hate hubbys exes they tried to get in my relationship

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mrsmoore

Sarah krashinМама троих детей

OK if its his ex she has every right to be angry and shouldn't feel guilty about it with him that was very insensitive in every way for him to say I feel if he was so quick to jump on that opportunity there could deff still be feelings for the ex that's not a joke even if he thought it was just my opinion

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taylorraye

🌸Taylor🌸Мама сына-младенца

That's what I thought too. But not only is this girl a family friend, she's one of his exes apparently. I know she shouldn't get so worked up but I'd be a little upset too...@2novbabies

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missing171user

missing171userМама дочки (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)

What he said was odd but I don't think she should get so upset about it, but she should just tell him that she didn't like that comment and how it made her feel

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