Is it selfish if I don't want boyfriends friends at hospital? He said his close friends want to be…
Is it selfish if I don't want boyfriends friends at hospital? He said his close friends want to be there and I said no not even my friends gonna be there only want my sister ,mom,his dad and him there. I don't want ton of vistors til we go home..
Glory·
nooo not at all...there shouldnt be too many people there anyways...well at least most mommies dont like to have too many people around them when they give birth...they can go see the baby in the house maybe?
missing75user·
That's perfect! that's how I have it for me only our parents and siblings
babylylasmommy·
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I'm just really uncomfortable with anymore than that I'm gonna be in a gown and I won't be in the mood I know it also when I'm pushing it will just be my boyfriend and doctors there @gabbii @happymommy_
Glory·
exactly... after giving birth and being in all that pain i dont think anyone is gonna be in the mood to want so many people around u...and u will need to rest too
missing75user·
just tell him you wouldn't mind when they go to the house but only for like a hour, it's your first moments with your baby and you want to spend them as a family, not the whole world
babylylasmommy·
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I'm thinking having a mini get together party to meet baby with friends idk @gabbii
Shai·
that's not selfish at all...
Chelsie·
not at all. that's really weird they want to be there.
stephanie·
Мама дочки-младенца
not at all, my bfs best friend showed up that night then like a week later started threatening him and what not so now they don't speak what so ever it makes me super mad because I could have had someone else stop by at that time who actually cares
kashena·
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not selfish at all because I don't want no one in the room when I am in my pain but when he is out and getting clean up everyone can be in the room