being a mom now , I see how I'm slowly losing friends . I feel so alone .. now I feel like it's just me and the baby . I feel like certain friends don't understand . finding a baby sitter to celebrate anything or to go out isn't simple . I Don't want to be the mom who "goes out and leave the baby with anyone" . I only leave my baby with my mom or her father's mother . today I feel like I lost the last friend I had . because she feels like one I don't make an effort to drop everything for her and two because I can't celebrate her birthday because of my insufficient funds ..oh, and to add to that I couldn't find a baby sitter fast enough for her .. I feel so alone .. like why can't friends be understanding . I can't be that friend who drops everything anymore when you need me . I either have to bring my daughter or just be a call away . it's so frustrating .. I miss having a shoulder to lean on.. I work hard at work, I'm with my daughter all the time .. sorry that being a good mom. makes you think I'm a bad friend .. my priorities changed once I became a mother .
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YUPP Just bc u cnt drink anymore thy want nothn to do with me. ITs rlly sad bc i thought we were rlly close. but ig they were just party friends. thats okay tho bc soon ill have my baby .fuck em.every tho it hurts so damn bad😢@godsgift92
it hurts .. I was in the same boat being pregnant. they rather go out and party and not accommodate plans for you because you're pregnant . @caseysmommy
i feel ya😢 i lost every single one of my friends .i ltterly have 0 friends now and havnt even had my baby yet.
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