being a mom now , I see how I'm slowly losing friends . I feel so alone .. now I feel like it's just me and the baby . I feel like certain friends don't understand . finding a baby sitter to celebrate anything or to go out isn't simple . I Don't want to be the mom who "goes out and leave the baby with anyone" . I only leave my baby with my mom or her father's mother . today I feel like I lost the last friend I had . because she feels like one I don't make an effort to drop everything for her and two because I can't celebrate her birthday because of my insufficient funds ..oh, and to add to that I couldn't find a baby sitter fast enough for her .. I feel so alone .. like why can't friends be understanding . I can't be that friend who drops everything anymore when you need me . I either have to bring my daughter or just be a call away . it's so frustrating .. I miss having a shoulder to lean on.. I work hard at work, I'm with my daughter all the time .. sorry that being a good mom. makes you think I'm a bad friend .. my priorities changed once I became a mother .