really feeling like I have no bond with my baby. like Iove her and that, but I jist don't feel like…

Ahh babe. That's just the hormones taking. It's extremely hard for the first couple of weeks for any first time parent so you're probably second guessing everything you do with her. When max wasn't feeding I'm not ashamed to say that it was hard for me to bond. But if you're worried I'd speak to your HV. But honestly you'll get there with binding when she's smiling & becoming a bit more of s little person if not sooner. It's literally hormones. Chin up! 😘 xx

I felt like his too hun! All it took was me spending time alone with my son and realising how much he needs me. Now i feel a great connection with him. When he was born i cried because i felt like i didnt love him enough but i guess i was just in shock because now i love him more than life! This feeling will go away trust me xx

I hope it goes away, just hoping it's not a sign of pnd. I've suffered with depression in the past and pnd is supposed to be more common in people that have had depression before.

@jade_17, @elisabetesantos

Just talk to your HV if you have concerns of pnd. Don't let it get too bad sweet! Xx

I had depressions in the past too but it turns out this time i just had baby blues. Remember we go through a lot with pregnancy and specially labour and now the sleepless nights so give your self a break :) talk to your HV she can give you the support you need and you always have us to have a chat when you need to xx

Also,the more you worry around her the worse it will be. She can pick up on your mood. of you're relaxed and happy she will settle better with you than if your tense. your mum is probably calmer coz she's done this before and isn't hormonal.