Some of u ladies are living the life and don't even realize it ... Complaining about men whom u…

Amen to that

Amen to that

like frfr bitchin about blessings... why tho

Everyone's got their own struggle! What may seem like a blessing to you may be a curse to them, ya just never know! ☺️

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yeah true @mamalamadingdong u are right about that but I feel like if your having someone there with u thru the most difficult times in your pregnancy as well as being able to share the great times,its a plus.. especially helping with finances and your able to b a stay at home mom and not worry how the bills are going to get paid, i consider that a blessing as well

you never know a mothers story. ive been married for 6 years with my husband i met in middle school. we have been off and on for over 9 years. when you see us now you cant tell what we been through(leaving me with a baby alone at 16 just to name one). Yes i bitch and complain a lot but its my preggie hormones. ive been a single mother for 3 years while we separated. Just being alive an able to breathe is a blessing in it self. i didnt meant to write so much lol i just wish people knew the half of my story. Feel better mama♡♡

agreed, everyone has the power to change their situation if they don't like it verses complaining about it though, but in some cases you can't make a man stay to help, or make family be supportive or come around etc. i feel exactly were you're coming from, there's alot of things i see women complaining about and im just thinking like "give me the opportunity" i'll appreciate & cherish it @jaden_mylove

yes most definitely!!!!! @mommytoaz thats all im saying

whatever it is you may be going through keep your head up mommy, there's a bright light waiting for you at the end of a tunnel 😊 @jaden_mylove

I see a lot of complaining on Preggie. Sometimes im like "Girl...😒" other times i get it. Especially with me. I know how it feels to be with an angel one day and a demon the next day. You think you are in hell one minute then everything is perfect. Especially when you are pregnant by an asshole and in your heart you know he is full of shit but you have this blessing inside you that shows so much possibility of the future. And you just dont know what that future holds. Relationships are tricky

Ill admit Ive always had a great relationship with my man, well at least with my past 3 pregnancies to the point I felt spoiled. This time around he is no where near helping at all this whole pregnancy. We are together, but honestly it feels more like he just lets me stay in his home even though he isn't here! Ever!!!! Maybe 1-2 times every two weeks. This pregnancy has been hell in itself. Ive had so many issues this time around. I get you sometimes I see these amazing women posting about their amazing spouses and im sitting here like .. Damn 😔. Yes, I have the choice to leave but being on bed rest taking care of three other children while not being able to work due to medical concerns really sucks! Hopefully we all get through what is going on now and it all gets better! I know I pray for myself all the time! I don't know how much longer I'd be able to allow myself to remain in my situation. I've even tempted to get up and leave to a shelter with the risk of hurting my child just because of the situation I'm in! 😪. Everyone has their own situations and not one can compare to another. And everyone has a certain amount of strength that they can last to deal with certain situations.

thanks i try to keep that in mind daily @mommytoaz it will all b worth it and yes they are i have enough hormones to last me to hell and back and feels like im more than two ppl some days lol so i cant keep going back and forth with an asshole @shortiebs

@bradsmom711, yes i totally agree with everything u are saying. We all are walking different strides but all with one goal in mind. it gets difficult at times

Yes we are. That one goal is all we need to remain focused on to get where we want and need to go!

I don't think nothing tops what my child's father said to me. He told me he despises our baby so I really don't want to hear about someone's boyfriend not going to the store or the other nonsense girls be complaining about. Please I wish I had those problems....

I am technically in a relationship and he works and goes to school and does his best to provide for his family and he loves us more than anything. Sounds great, right? Like what would I have to complain about? Problem is, he's an addict and struggling to quit and lying to me about stopping. He's facing drug charges. He spends a lot of his money on drugs. We have constant fights about it and it's gotten to the point where I left and moved in with my parents. However, I'm not one to complain- I never talk about my man troubles... well, until now anyways. But my point is just to prove that no matter how good someone may seem to have it, you never know what's really going on. As much as I love my man and he is the father of both of my babies, there have been many times I wish I could be strong enough to be alone so I could move on because I am always in pain.

we will all over come these different and difficult walks of life @mamalamadingdong God sees us all going thru whatever it maybe and i dont think He placed a baby in the middle of it to make us suffer anymore

🙌 most of us have it hard in one way or another! That's why we all should have each other's backs here!