Any ideas what I should do for my 21st birthday ? My baby is due the 6th and my birthday is the 26th. I do plan on doing…

i would plan something after baby is born because you can enjoy yourself way more better. u only turn 21 once haha

i got pregnant right after my 21 so i was lucky

oh i just realized u said your baby is due before your bday my bad lol

@mumof2 Haha, that's the plan. I'm due in less than a week and then my birthday is at the end of the month so I was thinking of having a birthday dinner and then going to a Halloween party or something.

yeah maybe haha because the healing process needs to take place hun haha is this your first kid?

my dad's girlfriend said that we were both getting drunk. my 21st is 5 months after I give birth

@mumof2, Ooh, I know it. That's why I don't have a set plan or anything. It's all gonna come down to how I'm feeling ! & yes this is my first.

you might want to postpone it to the following month because you will be in some pain after giving birth just letting you know ahead of time

and u want to do something fun for your 21 trust me

moms still can have fun too. im a mom already so just saying haha

dinner with drinks with the girlfriends. even if it's at your house.

@mumof2, Yeah, you're totally right. I'll probably just have a dinner and movie night at home with my little family and then maybe next month go out and have a good time 😊

@jomommaclark, that's what I'm thinking, probably something at home until I'm healed up !

yeah I would say so. you can have a potluck and byob this way you don't have to do much.

yeah most definitely

You'll be fine for going out honestly it doesn't take 3 weeks to heal lol I felt fine 3 days later when I left the hospital but everyone is different😁 I had natural birth no stitches at all. Good luck it's been a long 9 months I'm sure your 21st birthday is a good excuse to enjoy yourself😉🎉

@abella1023 thanks mama ! & Exactly! Everyone is so different so it's hard to know, so I'll just have to see how I'm feeling. It'll be a nice way to celebrate my baby, not being pregnant anymore, and my birthday.

make sure to order some of those alcohol test strips so you can tell when your milk supply is good to go for baby! people say pump and dump but from what I've read that dosnt help and it waists milk. if your able to yet pump enough before to make sure they feed while your waiting. or get formula for that time period

@aphrodite2014, Yes, definitely ! I've read that after about 3 hours the milk is okay to give them but I did get some of the test strips to be safe !

@ashleycoronel, awesome! hope you have a happy 21st!