I will never understand why my own mom hates me so much! I have always been a good kid growing up…

Aww I'm so sorry! I'm having a simaler situation with my mom! Big Hugs! And I'm really close with my mom so it hurts even more. My hasn't talked to my husband sense I told her I was pregnant. :(

That's a tough thing to deal with. My mom and I have had our rough patches and we aren't close like best friends but I know if I'm upset I can go to her for certain things. But for a mother to be jealous of their own daughter makes no sense to me. They should be proud of them because they made you. They molded us into what we are now. Taught us to be the mothers we want or don't want to be. I have learned to stop trying to always please my mom and get upset when she says mean things to me. You should do the same. And I know it's tough on you because your such a sweet person but don't let her or anyone bring you down or change the person you are today because you honestly are such a sweet person and always helping others and putting yourself last. You have overcome so much more than most people will ever overcome in their entire lives and look at where you are now. You're a strong woman and i hope one day you see that in yourself too. 💗🎀💗

I am close to my mom too. I live with her...but she always has negative stuff to say to me and when I'm upset she don't show any emotion. Every once in a while she does but I think she may be bipolar or something....bc she argues over every little thing I say. And when I was pregnant she abandoned me for 8 months and then when she knew it was about baby time she changed really quick so she could be apart of Hannah! But it wasn't for me it was for her so she could have par to Hannah's life. It's sad bc when your pregnant the first person you want and need is your mom... Sorry you have to go through that! It's a terrible thing! @nikki64

@niki664,

@courtney_boyea, you are so amazing! You always find the right words to say! I just can't understand bc the things she done to me growing up and as an adult I would have never done to my sweet baby girl and my mom knew that and thought back to all that she done. She knows my dream is to have at least 4 kids all I ever wanted was to be a mom! Me and Kyle now decided to have 5...one child for each year of our beautiful Hannah's life. And we will be financially stable when the hospital pays for what they done to my precious baby girl. I try to think of it as a gift from Hannah. When in reality It just shows me that they made the most terrible mistake that took a part of me and destroyed my life forever. But I can't let them get away with it, luckily I have an amazing lawyer who only made me tell the story one time. Thy documented everything and are taking care of all the paperwork an hospital records themselves. So I can try to move on and not get dragged along. In the end that doctor will think twice before ever arguing with a mother and not listening...because in reality mother knows best! And he sees tht now! Thanks again @courtney_boyea your great! 🎀💗