oo man I'm to sensitive right now, ***rant*** my husband's family is so fucked up that they didn't bother to buy my son a 1st bday present and on top of that they convinced my husband to miss that bday by dragging hubby to Mexico manipulation due to their greed, knowing it was a PROBATION violation and mandatory jail time. Because of his parents selfishness, they have cost us nearly 10g in a couple years, but what REALLY pisses me off is they barely have any bills and they inform my hubby he owes them 100 bucks because they choose to send it to his son that lives in Mexico, he acts grateful to them, but they can't even spend money on their grandkids (but they can gamble, shop, spoil their daughters) but he doesn't see the issue!? like seriously I can't fucking believe them because they know he's in 30g debt BECAUSE of them but my hubby is so fucking blinded always jumping when ma calls, trying to PLEASE her! I am SO tired of compromising for his family.
well problem was he was going to be at his child's bday until they LEFT him in Mexico because he wouldn't do what they wanted when they wanted, funny thing is he doesn't ask them to do ANYTHING for him or us, the baby mama was asking and instead of her telling him 1st, his ma just sent the money but honestly what family expects money back that they weren't told to use in the fucking first place?
for 30g I would say fuck my family that's too much money when you have your own family to worry about this is crazy
wow... my mans a mamas boy too but he wouldn't do that he'd be st his child's birthday party and so would his mom... I'm sorry your going through that crap.
Mamas boy's always do what mama says and it sucks. He need to understand that he's your man first then mamas son. And I wouldn't give them money either I completely don't understand. as for he's child in Mexico I think he should do that personally. That way he has a relationship with his child and they see that there father isn't a chump. I wish you didn't have to deal with family issues like that, but he has to snap into the fact that he has his own family now. You guys have to come first before anyone. He has to make his family respect you by showing that he's their for you and your family together.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
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son getting out of car seat
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seriously they are so twisted and it pisses me off they live 8 miles from me and don't even TRY to have contact with my son and I'm supposed to just jump to drive over to their when he gets time off from work, when NOTHING ever good came from him being in that awful place. he always tells me if it wasn't for me he'd be dead or in prison and it's 100% true, his own mom encourages him to break laws simply as manipulation to get at his money