@cvc2010, yea me too

girl I kno det but my baby will b well taken care of regardless I jus wish it was a warning sign to let me kno something lol

@cvc2010, yes thats goid your family got your back mine do to...my baby is a blessing in all dont get me wrong I just wish we didnt have it with these broke fools

@applepie19, out this whole pregnancy I asked him for 2 things n dets for clothes cus u outgrow dem n the sad thing was I was gon give his money back cus I had a job n the 2nd thing I asked him for 5$ to get something to eat n he couldn't do det so I said I'm not gon ask him for shit else cus I didn't lay wit myself to make dis baby n I haven't so he cud throw it n my face don't have time for det cus my family n friends r a great support system right nw

and thatb response would hbe the reason he doesn't see his child hes not even acting like a real man

@cvc2010, exactly mine nmonly came to one 2 appointments and nun if the ultrasounds...but wants to bash me about hin having money and has not bought shit I told him I can care less if hes there or not because my baby will be taken care of regardless.....but I understand where you coming from...

@applepie19, no mam he is not he hasn't done not shit n I hate to be det way but I don't have time for childish ass games I don't communicate wit him he don't do shit ain't came to a docs appt haven't bought shit haven't even called to see how my baby doing n I not the type to keep a child away from their parent n I want b but I will b damn if u think I'm bouta b boo boo the damn fool I been cut him off but all I was askn was he step up n b a man about the situation but u all see det response but thank y'all dets exactly how I felt I'm dne tryn

i wouldn't put any more energy in involving him than he puts in trying to be involved , you asked him what he was gonna do and he gave a thumbs up so I would kindly take that response as he isn't gonna do anything because a thumbs up is not words... I wouldn't say not another word to him until you get WORDS not symbols.

Sounds just like my daughters father, hasn't been to 1 appt, hasn't bought a single thing for her, basically telling me to text him when I go into labor and he also had the nerve to ask, "Whats her last name going to be?" Ummmm, MINE dummy since you choose to be MIA and text me once in a blue moon, always some lame ass excuse too why he didn't make it or what he's been going thru. . . . . like really 😒

I'm not even going to bother with mine anymore. He is a little boy trapped in a mans body. Its SAD, I wish he kept it 💯 from the jump and said he was a BN, cus that's what he is.

Don't let him take away anything from this experience and blessing. The real supportive and loving people are there for you and your little angel.

@cvc2010, well aleast you know you tried to tell him the deal....if he want to be around he will come around to it hopefully...mines is the same way thats why I dont fuck with him at all.....question do you plan on letting ur bd come to the delivery for the baby?? I am in between