Right? And I tried to explain to her that she wasn't in the room when both my brothers kids were born, but "I'm her daughter, it's different" 😒 plus she doesn't know how to comfort me anyways, and last time she made a bunch if noise and joked about it. She had C-Sections where she was knocked out, she has NO idea what L&D is all about. I'm doing it alone. I just want it to be me and my daughter this time.

@ashleymarietv, @kermi86 thank you 😊 makes me feel reassured

@pretty_xoxo_giirl_, YES!! That's what my mom says too! Ugh it's so frustrating... Like.. I realize that your child having a child must be an awesome thing, but cmon don't you want me to be comfortable?

Don't listen to their BS. It's not selfish. I don't think anybody is "entitled" to be there. YOU are the one in labor. I'm sorry, but they will be seeing the baby after it's born... They don't NEED to be there watching you labor and deliver, right? Smh. You keep your head up and do what you feel most comfortable doing! And don't listen to anything they say, because they're going to try anything that they think will guilt you into doing what THEY want, which is selfish of them! You do the right thing for you. :)

it's the best decision I ever made with my first one until a few ppl snuck in and I started freaking out and had them thrown out...I was doing it unmedicated and needed to concentrate and the fewer the ppl talking to me and staring at me the best. I saw go for it if that's what you want! my first one ended in emergency c section due to complications but I still believe not having ppl in the delivery room before it got that far was the best thing I could have done

me too! My mom said, I'm taking away a bond that she should be entitled to as a grandmother. . . . I'd rather he take care of my boys and stay at home. I initially wanted it to just be me and her father but now after he's been a dick and not involved at all, I just want to be alone too.

I think I want to be alone too. My baby's father can't be there, and he was the only person I would have wanted there. I love my mom and my sister but I just don't see myself being relaxed and comfortable around them. I'll figure it out that day. But if that's what you want, go for it. You have to be in a good state of mind.

@mamamills, @princessveronica, thank you :) I know they'll get over it but it's just annoying to listen to the bitching right now lol

Lmfao, I feel you girl. That's not something you really wanna have an audience for. I would do exactly what you want to do and just be you and the doctor and nurses. It's not a time for distractions and annoying family members. Lol.

@niki664, do you want to be by yourself too?

@ashleycoronel, we aren't. I just honestly think I would be more comfortable alone without all these people in there talking, staring, watching. I know I'll just want to scream at them to shut up and look away lmao

If you want to be alone be alone! it's not being selfish this is a huge day for you and your child! They will still be able to come see her after she is born.

Are you and the dad together ? I mean I do think the father has a right to be there because that's his baby too. But ultimately it's YOU going through labor and its up to you who you want there or not.

I've thought about that too. I think if you are down for it than your family should support you! In the end, you have the final say and they will just have to deal.