Tell me if this is a dick move. My husband and I moved here to Missouri on June 5th. It was a…
Tell me if this is a dick move.
My husband and I moved here to Missouri on June 5th. It was a spontaneous move and my grandparents said we could live with them, awesome. My papaw co signed for my jeep that I currently have, which I appreciate so much and we are paying on it just fine.
But today I've gotten so tired of how my grandma has been treating me and my family, and I want to move back to Oklahoma. All mine and my husbands family and friends are there. I am gonna talk to my husband about it tonight. But I feel bad because my grandparents paid out insurance 3 times. We are on their plan, because they insisted. But when we get our taxes next year, we plan on paying them back about 3400 because they paid the down payment on our car and including the insurance payments. And a few other things. Mind you we didn't ask them to do this. They did it because they wanted, at least that's what they said, but they still want us to pay them back. Which isn't a big deal.
Is it fucked up for me to want to leave and go back to Oklahoma? Should I just wait it out?
Jade·
I'm sort of in the same boat on a certain level as you!! Me and my bf did a spontaneous move here to Texas from wv to live with my mom and she's not treating us right and its too much stress and I feel bad I'm not all happy and positive for my little baby so we have basically made the decision to move back where his family is and all his friends , I lived there for 2 years and we are dreading and don't know how to tell my mom were going to be leaving ... We also moved here around July . It's hard girl , but what we keep trying to remind our selfs is we need to do what's best for baby , doctor , environment wise and growing up and we don't like it here or care for our doctors .. It's going to be breaking it to them that is the hard part .
Jade·
So what's best for your little family now ...
Ariel·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
Thank you! I have to talk to my husband about it tonight and see what he says. But I just can't handle the stress of my grandma anymore. The way she has been acting has made me resent her, even though she's done a ton for me, she still treats me like I'm dirt or I'm useless. It makes me sad. @had e90kdcicg
Ariel·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
Omg lol @jade90kdcicg
Josette·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I think you should talk to hubby then talk to your grandma about how you feel.
Ariel·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
That's what I'm doing. I know my husband feels the same way about my grandma. @jomommaclark
Jade·
That's exactly how my mom is being ... Not understanding at all and seriously stuck in her ways she's nags and complains how I do or don't do everything lol. I just seen ur post that you talked to them and it went well !!! I'm glad for you. You make is sound so easy to do and they took it well ugh so hard to bring it up for me @arielmarietalks
Ariel·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
@jade90kdcicg, It was definitely a difficult step for me! I hate breaking people's hearts or making them mad. But it has to be done! Lol. Just take a deep breath! Haha. I cried so maybe that helped hahahaha.
Josette·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
she may just need to vent. it's really hard living with others.
Jade·
Hahah omg I know I'll cry to but I know my mom will cry and like basically make a pity party for herself like poor me I won't see my grandchild I can't believe you're doing this ect. I hate crying in front of ppl or my mom. We're not close and I feel like it will break her heart too. You're right though it has to be done like you said @arielmarietalks